When
Your Husband Is Never In The Mood Testimonials
"Susan,
Thank you so much for this book.
Until reading the chapter on "Understanding Men And Sex," I hadn't
really factored in how much the physical and emotional differences
between us were causing problems.
Now that I have stopped fighting his "guy" tendencies, I have started
to appreciate them. He seemed to, almost immediately, recognize my
change of attitude and started to display more interest in intimacy.
We still have a
way to go, but he actually initiated sex this week!"
~Megan, San Diego, CA
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"The
section on "When he's an emotional mess and you soon will be" was the
first section I (had to) read!
That is exactly how I was feeling!
I love my husband, but until now, I was becoming an emotional mess.
Thank you for
helping me to feel less like a "freak" for wanting more sex.
And thank you
for giving me hope for making our marriage everything I need it to be."
~Kit, Sewickley,
PA
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| "Who
(or what) are you both bringing to bed" actually made me cry.
I realized that
many of MY issues were affecting his sexual desire for me.
Last weekend, we
actually talked about our lack of sex - without fighting.
He told me that
he hadn't felt comfortable being "honest" with me before. Now he does!
Its a start.
And, we have next weekend completely free of kids. I will definitely be
trying some of your "sexual environment" ideas.
God bless you
and Robert!"
~Janet,
Amarillo, TX
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| "Thanks
for saving me money on a new diet book!
As I mentioned
in my last email, I have gained around 30 lbs in the past year or so.
And, I thought that this was the reason that my husband was showing
little interest, sexually.
As it turns out,
he actually finds my new, more curvy, body very attractive. He actually
asked me NOT to lose any weight.
Apparently, his
lack of desire was caused by HIS weight gain and his concern that I no
longer found him attractive.
Since we had
that conversation, we have started showering together again and this
has led to lots of fun!"
~Gayle, Oklahoma
City, OK
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| "Susan,
I can't believe
I thought my biggest problem was a lack of sex.
I did need sex,
but until we started to have more regular sex (and he has started being
more interested in intimacy overall with me), I didn't realize how many
other areas of my life had been negatively affected.
I haven't been
remotely interested in visiting those internet sites anymore. I
actually found the energy to put in those workout tapes that had been
collecting dust. I (think) that I have been far more patient with my
step-son lately.
It is like you
say, "Sex is only an issue when you aren't getting any."
Thank you, soooo
much!"
~Rachel, Marco
Island, FL
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